With love, from Heather
The above photo is what my family used to look like until Jesse ripped us apart.
Jesse and I were married for 10 years and he cheated on me our entire marriage. I discovered a secret credit card of Jesse’s in January 2024, charges for dates and gifts (he told me these were both work related) and OnlyFans were on this card. After we cancelled the secret credit card, he started buying expensive items like guitar and golf equipment and would turn around and sell these items for cash so that he could continue to pay for dates and gifts without my knowledge. It wasn’t until I found out about his most recent affair in September 2024 that I kicked him out of the house and we filed for divorce. After dating one woman for a month, he decided to introduce her to our children who are 5 and 9 years old. Our divorce agreement requires that we wait 6 months of dating someone exclusively before introducing them to anyone. Jesse not only acknowledged that he broke this court ordered requirement but he introduced the kids to this woman before the divorce was even final.
Any time any new women come around my children, they spiral emotionally and mentally. My 5 year old son said that “it feels like all of the love has gone away from him”. I communicated this to Jesse and he told me that “stable connections - even new ones - can also be part of their healing”. Jesse also acknowledged that he violated the court order, this acknowledgement can be found in the GALLERY.
Telling our children that we were going to get a divorce was one of the hardest days of my life but the days that have followed have not been easy. Neither child is handling the divorce very well but since Jesse is a selfish man, he continues to push these women onto our children and only onto our children as none of his friends have met them. After seeing one of these women, my son will come to me and beg me asking if we can be a family again. I tell him that we will always be a family but that it looks a little different now. He tells me that God must have not heard me when I named him because anytime he prays, God never answers his prayers. I ask him what he prays for, he said he only prays for us to be a family again. Since then, he refuses to pray.
I continue to pray for my children’s emotional and mental health but also for their safety. When we lived at 12535 Wedgwood Circle, Jesse has shot a loaded gun off in the house when the children and I were home. The bullet went through a printer, through a garage door and lodged itself into a neighbor’s home outside their newborn baby’s window. Jesse has also left a gun safe on the floor unlocked, there’s a photo of this in the GALLERY. On February 11, 2025, Jesse slapped Jackson across the face while he was buckled into his carseat. Jackson was hysterically crying afterwards and wanted to call me. Jesse denied that phone call, which is a court order violation. After I kicked Jesse out of the house, he signed up for sex addict rehab but unfortunately didn’t last for more than a few weeks. I don’t think Jesse is a fit parent for our children.
Jesse’s mother has taken inappropriate photos and videos while my daughter was completely naked at 4 years old. While we were married, Jesse agreed that we would never leave our children alone with his parents. Once we divorced, he dropped my daughter and my daughter only off at his parent’s house overnight. I blew a gasket and took the inappropriate photos and videos to the police station. The police told me that there was enough evidence to open an investigation into his parent’s electronic devices, file a restraining order and start the process with CPS. Instead of going that route, Jesse agreed to sign a court order stating that he will not let his parents bathe, dress, undress or be alone with our children.
On August 21, 2025, Jesse and I met with our children’s therapist. Jackson was diagnosed with anxiety and depression. Jesse was told by the therapist that he needs to keep his girlfriends away from the kids for at least a year so that they have time to heal. It’s the only time in the last year that I’ve seen Jesse express emotion once he heard this.
Over the summer, I asked some so-called friends of mine to put some distance between themselves and Jesse. Instead, they invited Jesse to their home behind my back. One of these women, Daryl Shapiro, had a birthday in September and extended an invite onto her party bus to Jesse and one of the women he’s dating, they accepted. Three pathetic peas in a pod.
On Tuesday, December 16, 2025, I met with the children’s therapist. She said that neither child is in a place to meet a boyfriend or girlfriend. The therapist said that Stella would like to know why Jesse and I divorced and feels that if she knows, she can fix the problem and get us back together. The therapist said that Jackson is displaying avoidant tendencies and added an additional session for him to her calendar every month. I communicated this to Jesse. On Friday, December 19, 2025, Jesse sent me two messages that were intended for one of the women he’s dating. The first message said “he’ll do great. Do you want us to come down and we all go together?” and the next one said “My kids are dying to see your place.” Jesse went behind my back and against our therapist’s advice and decided to bring one of the women he’s dating around our children again, just 2 1/2 days after our therapist advised against this.
Jesse’s friends have said that I’m angry because he’s found someone and I haven’t. I think I’ve listed enough reasons to be angry. I pity the person that chooses to build a life with someone of Jesse’s character (or lack thereof).